Tuesday, March 20, 2007

I Hate My Girlfriend's Friends

QUESTION:

I really love my girlfriend, but I absolutely despise her friends. I just don't like them. What should I do?

ANSWER:

I find that hard to believe. You’ve heard the saying, “Birds of a feather flock together?” She must have something in common with them, something she sees in them that she identifies in herself. You’re either choosing not to see in your girlfriend the negatives you see in her friends, or you’re choosing not to see the positives in her friends that you see in your girlfriend. Does that make sense? So, your options are: open your eyes, break up with her or keep interactions with her friends to a minimum.

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