How Do You Get Over A Break-up?

QUESTION:

How do you get over a break up when you're in love with someone who is not in love with you? I don't sleep around and drink, so other options, please.

ANSWER:

I’m glad you don’t want to sleep around or drink. Most people associate the period after a breakup with destructive behavior. The fact that you’re heartbroken is already hurtful enough-why make things worse by abusing yourself?

I’ve always found that one of the best ways to get over someone is to focus on work and career. Take advantage of this alone time to concentrate on your professional goals. As things start happening for you, you’ll start to feel better and before you know it, your ex will not be the foremost thing on your mind.

Also, take this time to spend time with family and close friends. Get out, do things and try to have fun. Life must go on, and you’ll survive.