QUESTION:
Most of the time, the more I like a guy, the less I will call him to talk or chit chat, or to invite him out. I would prefer that guys take the initiative in this. Do guys find this a turn off? Would they take this to mean I wasn’t interested in them?
ANSWER:
Guys are hunters by nature. They actually enjoy the thrill of the chase and the challenge. This is why spectator sports are so popular – they get to channel that energy into their favorite team. Don’t take away their sense of anticipation by calling or asking them out. They won’t think you’re not interested. They’ll just see you as a challenge, and work that much harder. You really don’t need to do anything. Just sit back, relax, and see who shows up.
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