Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Why Don't Guys Make The First Move?

QUESTION:

What are some things that would make a guy not approach a girl when she has always shown an interest, is friendly and open to conversation with him? Does the saying still stand that if a guy really likes someone, he would do whatever to get the girl, even though he may be shy?

ANSWER:

Yes, if a guy is interested, he will do what he has to, to get the girl. The issue is that so many guys today have the attitude that they’re going to let the women chase them. This makes for lazy men and confused women (such as yourself). However, you can bet your bottom dollar (whatever that means) that if a guy is interested in a girl and she has shown interest but isn’t making a move to ask him out, that he will eventually step up to the plate. There could be several reasons for your male friend acting this way 1.) He’s already involved 2.) He’s waiting to see if you’ll make a move. 3.) He’s not interested. 4.) He's gay. I say: Wait. If he’s interested and available, he’ll eventually ask you out.

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